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Parsout
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posted 02-03-2001 08:59 PM
Crikeys...um, yes i think u should tell your p's. Guns and domestic violence DO NOT mix... man, thats some scary shit... Parsout
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Redlemons
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posted 02-04-2001 01:58 AM
I totally agree with Pars about the guns and domestic troubles. It sounds so easy to just turn to a gun to solve it all.Personally, if I were your friend I'd find the gun and turn it into a police station. It's not illegal for his dad to have it, of course, but still, that's what I'd do. I'd try to convince the cops to take it. This is way out of his hands- I'd tell the school councellor (sp?) or his uncle. They're removed from the situation so they could handle it better. Don't worry about the divorce- that's between his parents. As long as he realises that he didn't cause the divorce- it sounds like it was going to happen anwyay. I'd definately tell an adult about it. Good luck.
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Snag
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posted 02-06-2001 02:04 AM
Something similar has happened with my cuz. He had his license for just a few months and rolled a company truck. Charged with undue car and attention. Hit the ditch in his truck. My old man pulls him out with the Z71. Numerous other little piddly ass things. Aunt and uncle buy him a car. He has it for about six months, runs a 4-way BAM!! Write off. This is his own car...bought though by his mom and dad. Insurance (high as hell...now to be even higher) paid for by mom and dad. He always aimed to please dad and as long as dad was happy everything was ok. Furthermore, they all (dad included) laugh at mom cause she flips out over stuff...only cause she is the only one who thinks things through and sorta seems like a prude because of it. Thing is, there is anger over the fact that a vehicle was destroyed. BUT, what must happen is that the realization must be made that a car/truck/whatever is nothing more than steel, aluminum, fibreglass, glass, plastic, rubber..........it can be fixed or replaced. A life can't. And this is especially true when the life is that of one of your children. I do not have kids yet, but I KNOW that if anything happens to them...I would kill to protect them and if the brutal enough of a fate was bestowed upon them I would kill to avenge. I cannot understand how his father could do this to his own child.
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Redlemons
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posted 02-06-2001 10:38 PM
I'm with Snag all the way on that last comment.I think his dad is so pissed off because he thought the son wrecked the truck on purpose. He's getting back at him not for the action, but for the idea behind it, I think. Just a question for anyone living in the USA- how old do you have to be to get any driving license? Do you need an adult with you for a certain amount of time before you get can get a full license? Here in Australia you can get your Learner license when you're 16, and until youre 18 you need a full licensed driver with you in the car. Once you're 18 you've got your P plates, and you need them for 3 years (I think? Pars?) and after that you can do whatever.
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PrincessGummy
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posted 02-07-2001 08:20 PM
well, his dad still isn't talking to him....but, i don't *think* he's hurting him anymore.here, you ahve to be 16 to get your permit, and then, 6 months after that, you can get your liscense, and then you still have to be in by 11 i think...i dunno, i really don't follow it. and then, at 18 i think, you can get your real adult liscense...i want a cute lil car first i think i might lifeguard this summer if i don't go to germany so i can save up for some cute car...i don't care what, just so it's cute...preferably red.
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